Nefa Akua Hodari-Okae

Nefa Akua Hodari-Okae, 41, passed away peacefully on Friday, September 11, 2026, at Moses H. Cone Memorial Hospital with her devoted sister by her side. She was born on April 17, 1985, to His Excellency Kodjo Hodari-Okae and Professor Margaret Adzoa Ottah.

Nefa radiated a rare and beautiful light, bringing cheer, hope, and warmth to every life she touched. From childhood, her vibrant energy, distinctive individuality, and positive spirit set her apart. She embodied excellence and discipline, carrying these virtues steadfastly until the very twilight of her life.

Nefa worked in technology as a Senior Cyber Security Consultant, where her intelligence, dedication, and willingness to help others made her a valued colleague and friend. She was exceptionally diligent and always willing to share her knowledge, offer guidance, and help others navigate challenging situations. Known for her ability to thoroughly research complex issues and find solutions, Nefa approached everything she did with thoughtfulness, determination, and care.

Beyond her professional accomplishments, Nefa had a true passion for decorating and creating beautiful spaces. Whether decorating for herself, her family, or her friends, she had a remarkable eye for style and detail. She especially enjoyed preparing for holidays, weddings, and birthday celebrations, finding joy in making every occasion special. Nefa also loved shopping and spending time with her sister. She had an unmistakable sense of style and was always dressed to impress, thoughtfully coordinating her outfits, shoes, handbags, and accessories. Elegant, classy, and unique, Nefa expressed her personality through the little details that made her who she was.

Her faith in God never wavered, remaining an anchor through every season of her journey.

An artist at heart, she poured her soul into unique paintings that beautifully expressed her creativity and individuality. Her genuine kindness and heartfelt empathy were unmistakable, leaving lasting imprints on countless hearts.

Above all, Nefa shared an extraordinary bond with her beloved sister and best friend, Maisha Hodari-Okae. The two lived, worked, and shared their lives together, creating a special connection that extended far beyond sisterhood. Their relationship was built on love, companionship, and countless shared experiences. Nefa's presence will be profoundly missed by Maisha, her beloved parents, and by all who had the privilege of knowing and loving her. Her intelligence, generosity, distinctive style, and the memories she created will forever remain in the hearts of those she leaves behind.

Nefa is survived by her loving parents, H.E. Kodjo Hodari-Okae and Professor Margaret Adzoa Ottah, her devoted sister, Maisha and her beloved brother, Komla Hodari-Okae. She is also survived by her cousins, Peace Fafa O. and siblings, Benedicta O. and siblings, Henrietta O. and sibling, Edwin O., Camilla and Christopher W., Bright O. and siblings, Gary W. and siblings, Caroline A. and siblings (and too many to mention). She will also be remembered by her dear friends, Yayra A., Catherine H., Victoria G., and Tanisha Sims.

Nefa was preceded in death by her paternal grandparents, William Kwame Mensah Okae and Beatrice Ama Dapaa, her maternal grandparents, Simon Yao Otta and Lydia Abra Otta, and her uncles, Paul Yaovi Otta and Mateo Okae Mensah.

A funeral Mass will be celebrated at 9:00 a.m. on Saturday, October 17, 2026, at Blessed Sacrament Catholic Church, with Fr. Jim Fukes, OFM Conv. officiating. The burial will take place following the service at Alamance Memorial Park. The family will receive friends on Friday from 4:00 p.m. to 6:00 p.m. at Lowe Funeral Home & Crematory; and an additional visitation will take place on Saturday morning prior to the funeral Mass at Blessed Sacrament Catholic Church from 8:00 a.m. to 8:45 a.m.

Though Nefa's life was far too short, the love she shared, the beauty she brought into the lives of others, and the memories she leaves behind will never be forgotten. She will be deeply missed and forever cherished by her family, friends, and all whose lives she touched.

You may send condolences to the family and watch the video tribute online at www.lowefuneralhome.com.